Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Mother-daughter relationship

Currently, I am enjoying this relationship. She is my daughter as well as my best friend. She advices me on how I should dress up or what kind of replies I should be giving. She is my daughter when she asks me for advice and still wants that cuddling and hugging. Is she grown up or will she ever be a grown up for me? She will always be my child. I have to change the way I look at her, just as she undergoes changes herself.

Sunday, August 03, 2008

Trust - The essence of all relationships

Any relationship to last forever depends on trust. If there is even a slight element of mis-trust, then everything comes crumbling down. Then one tends to look at everything with suspicion. How can one then live in peace? There is a continuous nag at the back of the mind. There will be no freedom in thinking, then one is always looking for things beyond what is being presented. There is too much analysis wasted in insignificant matters.
In today's world, can there be something such as blind trust? We tend to cheat most on our nearest and dearest, because we are hesitant to put truth in front of others. We tend to think that if we tell the truth then we have to face their anger. I still think this is better than to lead the whole life telling lies and the impact of all these lies is faced by the other person at one shot, which can severly harm the other person. In effect, the damage caused is greater.

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Relationships, Emotions, Psychology

Relationships, Emotions, Psychology - All these are inter-connected. We tend to read more into certain relationships, trying to believe what we want it to be. In such cases, we want that relationship to work, despite its shortcomings. But psychologically, it is a burden, because we are (maybe) trying something impossible or so difficult that it is a strain on us mentally. What is the objective? or rather objectives, as two people are invovled. Should the aim be to satisfy only one person's objective or neither, because trying to satisfy both would be difficult. Trying to satisfy only one person's objective would mean a great amount of compromise (or should we call it sacrifice) for the other person. If neither objectives are satisfied, then either both have compromised a little (willingly or unwillingly) or the relationship ends.

Mother-Child in the womb

The mother-child relationship starts in the womb. From a small embryo to slowly developing each part of the body, each organ and then transforming into a full fledged human body - all inside the womb - a small bag, surrounded by water. It is one of nature's wonder - a life inside another life....and then bringing this tiny life into the outside world.

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Introduction

I started this blog titled "human-realtionships", as I find each realtionship highly intrguing, be it a mother-daughter, husband-wife, daughter-in-law-mother-in-law, the list can be endless, if we include brother-in-law's brothers-in-law. As this is my first posting, I thought I'd limit it to just introducing this blog. Hope to see some interesting comments on this.